The new Education of our children, adolescence and young adults (German)

A new comprehension of Partnership, Marriage and Family of Love and Sexuality

The new Education of our Children

The new Consciousness of Women, the mother of a new Civilization

In order to justify their impulses and infidelities, some men and woman claim that marriage kills love. No, marriage does not kill love if man and woman know how to consider each other and learn to discover in one another an expression of the divine world.

If they do not seek to know their partner’s soul and spirit and to make every sacrifice for them, they must not expect the other’s physical body to satisfy them. After all, what is this physical body? As soon as a man dies, he is just a corpse, and his wife does not keep him, but has him buried. Yes, she loved her husband, and she still loves him.

Yes, but it is the subtle aspect, the spiritual body of man, that is alive.

The physical body remains what it is. It eventually gets old, and after a while we may find it less pleasant and tire of looking at it. Whereas the inner life is always different, always new, like the water that we love, because it is inexhaustible.

Most men and women are so careless when they enter a relationship or marriage! They imagine that everything will be easy, light and pleasant, since their partner is there, of course, merely to satisfy their needs. But gradually they begin to feel stuck, and then come the arguments and confrontations, until they understand that, in order to restore the situation, they must each strive to forget themselves a little and think of the other.

What they mistook for recreation is in fact a school where they begin what for every human being is the most important apprenticeship: the expansion of consciousness.

Perhaps you are wondering what this expansion of consciousness means. It means leaving one's small, limited self in order to enter the vast community of humanity and, for many, this apprenticeship inevitably begins with the experience called ‘falling in love'.

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The impulse that attracts men and women to each other, this impulse that we call love, can never be fully satisfied on the physical plane, for it is not the physical body that needs to love, but the heart, and even the soul and spirit.

If one looks no further than the physical boy the best one can hope for is some agreeable, pleasurable emotions and sensations, but these soon run sour and are transformed into jealousy, antagonism and hatred. In love, as in many other areas, the body must be seen as an instrument, a means not an end.

Married people who make no effort to seek further than the physical body will always be dissatisfied. Their life together will be hell, because they will end by seeing only each other’s defects. But if they work to make their love an exchange on the level of the soul and spirit they will experience renewed happiness every day. Even when they are both old they will continue to re-discover each other and rejoice in the wonderful things they see in each other.